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Checklist: Forms of Abuse (2/4)

Economic Abuse

  • Makes you account for all the money spent/controls the money
  • Keeps you short of money
  • Makes you ask for basic necessities/money
  • Undermines your attempts to improve your education
  • Undermines your attempts to get or keep a job
  • Makes you give all your earnings to him
  • Chooses not to work, when he is capable of obtaining a job, and makes you be the sole earner

Male Privilege/ Patriarchy

  • Demands obedience like you’re a servant
  • Makes major decisions without your input
  • Treats you like you’re inferior
  • Tells you that you can’t cope without him
  • Coerces you into marriage through threats and force

Immigrant/Cultural Abuse

  • Threatens to cancel sponsorship/have you deported
  • Lies about your current status
  • Provides false information about immigration laws/process
  • Uses religion and cultural practices to threaten or isolate you from accessing supports
  • Undermines you because of your race, religion or country of origin
  • Makes false allegations to immigration officials
  • Threatens/tries to remove children from Canada
  • Makes threats about penalties in country of origin
  • Uses or glorifies patriarchal cultural practices
  • Refuses to acknowledge divorce through religion

Sexual Abuse

  • Pressures you to have sex
  • Makes you feel guilty if you don’t have sex
  • Forces sex against your will
  • Pressures you to have sex after being abusive
  • Pressures/forces you into unwanted sex acts
  • Treats you like a sexual object
  • Threatens to share or does share pictures of you on the Internet
  • Inflicts unwanted pain on you during sex
  • Pressures you to engage sexually with a third party
  • Uses sex and intimacy to control you
  • Forces sex as a condition to keep children safe/allow you to see them/return them to you
  • Exposes children to pornography
  • Sexually abuses the children
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